Recount.

 

"Communication works for those, who work at it"-John Powell.

Every relation stands good when it is furnitured fine with proper understanding. A better understanding always demands for the clearance in the communication.

When things are not properly communicated, it creates the mess. Bcz that not only be the path of transferring speech but emotions as well. When things don't properly get communicated,it becomes the prime reason of weaken bond,as in things were taken wrong and thus processed wrong.

The best solution in such case,is only the proper talk required. If it doesn't be the way,then automatically,things windup more and take us to the situation that hardly had any existence. We start predicting things and ofc then plays an important role,our mind,to take us at the worst of it. We start complaining on things and to simplify, to satisfy others,we complicate our thoughts,we complicate ourselves.

Maximum to maximum things in our life we learn, when we reach that particular stage. Before that, everything seems unnecessary and a kind of interference, either by our parents, by our family or by anyone, literally anyone.

Generally, people feel outsiders understand us better than our insiders. But why is so the mindset...??

Saying yes to our yes and no to our no, for a while,that may be real or fake...god knows...is fine. That may make us feel good with that person for a while. But in right terms, they will be there for you, with you... only for that while.(ofc, not always it be this way).

Then ofc, teaching us on goods and awaring us on bads is responsiblity of our people. But mostly,it feels not that good bcz of lack of proper communication and also little lack of experience.

If things get properly communicated then hardly there exists any hardship in the maintenance of any relation.

It is not only our speech that communicates all,but also the love,the affection and our feelings on that bond that majorly does 80% of the work.

Secondly comes,the timing. To let things properly communicated and making it understandable,also demands the proper effort of time. Putting opinions on rights,also makes it's proper balance, when it is the correct time to. Else simply,it will be considered the part of any random senseless speech.

Give itself a proper time,so that not only you make others understand your language,but also strengthen your inner voice.

In right terms,no one be bad by heart. It is only our way to see and efforts we put to simplify things 

Moments decide the sweetness or the bitterness of words. But heart always weigh more with love.

Spread love- better things are the path.