An Exemplar...2

Continuing from part where I left last one... direct link of part 1👇👇👇https://talktr.blogspot.com/2021/06/an-exemplar-1.html.

It's been said, that when you feel situations around you are unfavorable... you actually that time get to know about the reality of people, trying to help you out or simply they pretend to do so. Same thing happened with my dadi. Her heart always commanded to trust and help others. And so, people easily benefited themselves by the case.

But it becomes very heartbreaking when you get to know that those so called people were the one to whom you trusted blindly.(well, not in mood to elaborate that).

My dadi once said to me -" kisi ki aatma ko khush karna asaan nahi hai or sabhi log kar bhi nhi paate, lekin agar karna chaho to uski shuruaat to ki hi jaa sakti hai". 

Well that's deep to understand and I think these words are very precious to me.

Never limiting herself for any task, she always did work harder than her capacity.

Gradually, things were getting settled. She couldn't make her children much educated but more than that she made them learned. She gave her children the actual moral of living life, which helped them to manage things smoother.

Although, things were getting smoother but the jealous eyes around her and family never stopped their work. Despite of everything, she focused on her family, her children and devoted herself to god.

By the time,my parents were married and I too was born. I was of only 6 months when another incident totally disturbed our entire family. My youngest chacha died...he was just 20. Being youngest and most intelligent in our family,he was always pampered and most loved by everyone. This incident totally unsettled everything.

It was again a very hard time for the family to manage. After this,my dadi started to feel like she was loosing her strength but again she stood to move. She stood for the family, with the family.

She fought with every ill speeches without speaking. She believed on working and helping. This her basic personality gave us a different view to deal with,in whatever situation we are at.

Time moved on, and I can remember how actively my dadi used to work in our old and small house. Now we have a bigger house and all living together.

Though, now we have everything for a good life but the most precious- for which we thank almighty everyday is- our dadi.

Her thoughts and immense will strength always teaches us on goods and bads of life.

Today, being 80+, she still manages to do her work by own and now she has an amusing connection of herself with god that only they understand and we simply smile.

Even though, now we have a better life but my dadi never stopped helping others and never ever let her connection with god even pin size less.

She always teaches us "ki jo log dusro ka dukh dekh kar khush hote hai,wo kabhi khud khush nahi rah paate".

Even today whenever she feels that we are wrong at any place, she makes us to a right one.

Her experience, her strength and her will power always helps us to cure things in a better way.

Well, there are much more things to share about my dadi with you guys. But I think, the radiation of her positive vibes are not something that can be totally captured on pictures or words.

It can simply be felt 💖.